._2cHgYGbfV9EZMSThqLt2tx{margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{width:75%;height:24px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-,._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{background:var(--newCommunityTheme-field);background-size:200%;margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-{width:100%;height:46px} We'll see what happens. Just seems suspicious to me. Our number one rule is ._3K2ydhts9_ES4s9UpcXqBi{display:block;padding:0 16px;width:100%} We recently filed charges against my ex for harassment etc. She probably would've done anything to get you back even if it wasn't serious. 3. Im really worried about him. All this after 4 months. But I brought him to it (afraid of intimacy, so pushed him away through anger, criticism,). 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Just wanted you to know.". I do not remember making that agreement. I guess they start to get a little nutty when you ignore them for weeks. By i would ve to agree with ben, it does ve to do with the level of relationship, if the relationship is a serious one by that i'm assuming both parents are involved that kinda thingy there's nothing wrong in popping in unannounced but if otherwise which a lot of ladies like to do (wonder y) its best to call before showing up not because of anything Seems like basically what everyone is saying is be cautious. I've read a lot of your posts though kid, so I know you know that. What really rubs me I dont understand why he wanted to talk after saying he never wanted to see me again. But it really is an invasion of my privacy and not to mention just rude to show up to someones house unannounced. Share this conversation. She asks me to tell her what I heard. Tjeesh. The whole thing sound pretty weird to me he just sounds a bit erratic. Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. its been 5 months with 1 month of strict nc. File it as a stalking incident. All four month probably just hit her all at once. I would full on her a restraining order. she rarely smoked cigarettes but in those 3 weeks I saw that she had smoked a lot of cigarettes. Girls, Would you contact your ex boyfriend if you still loved Don't do it! Bad bad idea. The ultimate revelation of his feelings for you is the time he put in. should applaud her she got balls. It's like she can't be happy for herself so she has to let someone else down. Big House With Lots And Lots Of Room . She feels guilty (mentioned hurting you; you aren't over it). She started crying some more, saying that she knows that no one will ever treat her better than I did. but it was more of her testing out a guy to see if she liked him before she broke up with me kinda deal. Review the wiki links below for the rules, FAQ and announcements before posting or commenting. Remember that OP is a human being and their needs are first and foremost on this sub. What gives her the right to do something like that man? Why do you want him back? I don't know, whatever, I go out with two different types of creepy messages. I would not even discuss any of this with her and you should absolutely never communicate with her about their child. I wouldn't recommend it if that is on your mind. Not that much, but a little just because it was out of left field. 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But I do love her anymore and just deal with this. In some cases, individuals do it out of anger or spite. I don't think there's good advice to be given here because you're in such a grey area. Actually, as far as being final messing with her I think that's a good example of you closing the door that she wanted kept open. 9 days later and as of last night we are officially back together and trying this thing again. Unannouncedvisits are very common in cases with extreme or violent allegations. DEAR AMY: Two years ago, I was casually seeing a man, Brian, for about a months time. Your emotions will come flooding back and you will be left feeling worse than before you showed up. He mentioned names Id never heard of. We dated for 2.5 years, broke up four months, etc. Some parents may expect to have a visit at some point, but may not know when.. No Result (Clearly the Facebook thing is probably a test to see if I'll notice and chase). Please I need advice. I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. Now I do and its partially because of the break up(got a great new job) so here I am. I know you love him, but before you even consider going back with him, you better make sure he's gotten over this. Did she come in and make coffee, and demand you to go get her the creamer she likes? In a way it's good that your ex is hurting now rather than later because it will allow him to heal quicker. That's the only reason why you came over? That's all I'm getting from thisor else there is a huge chunk of info you dont have (like maybe her rebound guy or ex or whoever dumped her). (Also not the first time shes done this type of thing), Side note** she often uses being a mom as an excuse for her poor behavior because moms just worry so shes just being a mom . At this point, my shield that I put up when she came through the door was slowly starting to fade. If she came back as a whole, strong person, then we could talk, but I'm just left very confused by this whole thing because someone who doesn't care or who is over it, doesn't do that, start crying the whole time, etc. There was one time he got caught up and missed picking her up but the school called both of them and she was picked up from aftercare. She obviously has some issues to work out on her part though and maybe last night was the first step for her in doing that? the night I caught her she had said"I would be a good wife to you" all emotional. Unless I really, really wanted him back, I wouldn't want him coming over. When my ex cheated on me I dropped her like a stone, I was hurt but I repressed my emotions and I didn't vent out my anger to her until she got back in contact with me 2 years later. I answer. Who dumped who in my situation is a bit hard. Know your limits but also show her respect because honestly it's hard to say what the heck is going on in their minds, because frankly they dont' know what is going on in theirs. My ex is doing kindof the same thing, he dumped me while he was already living with his current gf. I think he has some growing up to do. Even if the claims arent too serious, you may not find about an investigation until a CPSsocial worker arrives. I just wish I knew what he wanted from me. LOL. or at least don't answer the door. Indeed any kind of unannouced showing up is bad enough, but an ex doing it is truly messed up. By Theres nothing that would make this illegal in an employment law sense (like a law saying that your employer cant show up at your house), but its certainly possible that its illegal in a more general sense, like if he violated disorderly conduct laws or something like that. Personally, the unannounced showing up of an ex is UNFORGIVEABLE. It was disasterous. I have not spoken to my husbands ex in over 2 years. She and our conversation was great. toughlove1993 Not as much though, so getting better. Ice queen And I told her straight up that I don't even know her anymore, I'm sketpical, and that I don't trust her. Ask Your Own Parenting Question. beerockJanuary 28, 2009 in Getting Back Together. Never. Me: Stop with the sorrys and crapPeople just don't show up like that..You just don't want to admit that you miss me..So just stop with the cover and say how you really feel. Just Me85March 30, 2009 in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships. I (m/28) popped up last night at my exs house unannounced to collect a phone I got for her because her old phone was completely fucked under the Press J to jump to the feed. Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By Unless the ex invites you, then no, I wouldn't do it. I have not seen her since the break up. she thought I cheated on her and shes not the type of woman that takes that. I noticed signs she was nervous before catching her like. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. If he contacts you again, talk over the phone. So she was worried about what to do etc.. That night when I caught her though of course she acted like she was trying to break up with me. Izzy1234 Really hard to say what were her intentions. Please use the report button to ensure we see it. Ooph suddenly so thankfully that BM has a big mouth about me behind my back but is so intimidated she doesnt even want to see me. Its such a sad situation. Just imagine if you were dating someone. @keyframes ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5{0%{transform:rotate(0deg)}to{transform:rotate(1turn)}}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq{--sizePx:0;font-size:4px;position:relative;text-indent:-9999em;border-radius:50%;border:4px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyTextAlpha20);border-left-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);transform:translateZ(0);animation:ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5 1.1s linear infinite}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq,._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{width:var(--sizePx);height:var(--sizePx)}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{border-radius:50%}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq._2qr28EeyPvBWAsPKl-KuWN{margin:0 auto} I am trying to figure out what he was curious, it's not going to ask this because I know my post which I realize that I dont like it, but haters are always staring at my mother's home on my ones. Manage Settings Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By He doesnt have to confirm he is picking her up on his court ordered days. Turns out he left. He is fighting hard with his head and heart which is what's making him confused. I hate her and her audacity and crazy. Reply . Don't do it. I should have said I was busy and couldn't come to the door or whatever. I think you need to tread carefully with him. I say stay away for your own mental sanity. By this point, I was like, Oh hell no. 10,798 views Jul 29, 2022 895 Dislike Share Save 420 Scene 56.6K subscribers I showed up at a fans house completely unannounced. That's abuse. It seems like if you were actually worried youd call even if you didnt like the person right? Even though I've been dating and enjoying the company of other women for the last month or so, my ex still has some control over me. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By As the title is an important trait to have a good minute after. Also, she was very codependant on me. Also, she asked me if I was dating, basically dropping subtle hints the whole time about my dating life, etc. You did well though from you've told us. It caught me way offguard and the fact that she lied to me, bothers me. She starts to cry again, saying that she was finally able to talk to me face to face and that I should respect that. I don't think I'd communicate with him in person just yet. 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I think it's wayyyy too early to tell. ._1x9diBHPBP-hL1JiwUwJ5J{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:#ff585b;padding-left:3px;padding-right:24px}._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4{height:16px;padding-right:4px;vertical-align:top}.icon._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5{height:20px;vertical-align:middle;padding-right:8px}.QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{height:18px;padding-right:8px;vertical-align:top}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 .QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)} I dont even do that to my own mother . I remember toward the beginning of our relationship my now ex bf told me, with tears in his eyes: "if you ever left me I'd wait day and noght outside your door for you to open". I Am The Only Family Member Not Invited To A Wedding - What Should I Do. It looks like the finality of your break up finally hit her like a ton of bricks and she came running back to you. DH has explained that if BM were to show up unannounced, I am to take the kids, hide in the closet where his pistol is stored, call the police, and if she breaches the thresh-hold, to shoot. This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. The same is true with family members. Or, if they must come in make sure that you dont make a habit of stopping everything you are doing in its tracks to sit down and host their unannounced visit. If you continue with your chores, or sit back down at your computer to work they will eventually get the point. There's also a no contact order against him yet he just pulled up ? When he constantly accuses me and gets upset I feel the guilt as if I have done something I have not done. Are you interested in getting back with him after the After facing criticism for her behavior, she posted a photo appearing to double down on the decision. Me: Look you're not over it..you told me that last night and I can just tell..I honestly don't even know you anymore..I'm out all of the time now..If you see me out, come say hi and we'll see what happens. I still can't get over the audacity of her, dude. That makes sense. Read More >. He didn't want to give concrete answers about the finality of our relationship so I made him I dont even do that to my own mother . She kept on turning the knife already stuck in my heart. if they wanna see you, you'll know. That went over well. Has an ex ever showed up at your house unexpectedly? Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By Indeed any kind of unannouced showing up is bad enough, but an ex doing it is truly messed up Yeah, I was Obviously she felt guilty, and wanted you to hear her out. I called the cops on one who did that. The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. As Birdonawire mentioned, it's hard to say what she wants. If you do not want them on you property, you can ask them to leave. I know, I told him to pick up after we've spent seven years which spanned from college and have always been very quiet. Very worried. But it really is an invasion of my privacy and not to mention just rude to show up to someones house unannounced. Tries to get back with his ex while wooing you. It seems to me she was so comfortable around you that she decided it would be brave thing to do. Some people have been saying I should never have told him but I felt he needed to know the truth. Showing up to a class I'm not enrolled in, Showing up to class as a 3L with a job offer, Showing up in ACUs to your civilian DUI hearing. Everyone says I have to leave him alone but I really want to help. I ended up texting her this morning and here was the interaction: Me: Honestly, I have no idea why you came or what to believe but after all of that last night, I just can't leave it like that. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. Im sorry. Why did he turn up like that at 7am. Nothing ever seems cut and dry in this department. Yes the showing up unannounced is a bad sign! He was busy taking care of a sick child and not at his phone and HCBM decided it was a good idea to drive to our house because she was worried with her own mother in tow as a witness I assume all because she didnt get an update for a few hours. He's out and about having a good time, while I'm dealing with the whole bu and grieving process. toughlove1993 Good way to put it. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. St, The Secrets Of House Music Production Pdf Download . My mom forgot me once as a child. I want him to know I care but all the while keeping my distance and my dignity. .ehsOqYO6dxn_Pf9Dzwu37{margin-top:0;overflow:visible}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu{height:24px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu{border-radius:2px}._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:focus,._2pFdCpgBihIaYh9DSMWBIu.uMPgOFYlCc5uvpa2Lbteu:hover{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-navIconFaded10);outline:none}._38GxRFSqSC-Z2VLi5Xzkjy{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT{border-top:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-metaText);cursor:pointer;padding:8px 16px 8px 8px;text-transform:none}._2DO72U0b_6CUw3msKGrnnT:hover{background-color:#0079d3;border:none;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-body)} OK, often "sorry" is just short for "Ha ha, I screwed you over and there's nothing you can do about it. It was crazy because it would only causing more pain for myself. He didn't and was using her). He told her it was inappropriate for her to show up unannounced since hes not the only person who lives there but she doesnt see anything wrong with it. .FIYolDqalszTnjjNfThfT{max-width:256px;white-space:normal;text-align:center} I think the consensus, OP, is: don't do it. She said that she could tell I wasn't over it yet and she said that she wasn't either. She is blocked from everything possible . It seems like he is testing himself to see how his emotions will be when he meets you. I kept saying to her, So that's it? This has never happened to me, but I think you nailed it on when you said this 'She said that she never knew what it was like to be alone and she's learning that now. ' Just seems so crazy if you ask me. Admittedly I don't understand the dynamic between them and brown, you can attest to my inexperience here just by looking at my other threads, but after that long does the power struggle even matter any more? I basically said to her that I was fine now and it took me a very long time to pull myself out of the gutter and get back on my own two feet. I know she would. Just two days ago he said he never wants to see me again. ._2ik4YxCeEmPotQkDrf9tT5{width:100%}._1DR1r7cWVoK2RVj_pKKyPF,._2ik4YxCeEmPotQkDrf9tT5{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center}._1DR1r7cWVoK2RVj_pKKyPF{-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center;max-width:100%}._1CVe5UNoFFPNZQdcj1E7qb{-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0;margin-right:4px}._2UOVKq8AASb4UjcU1wrCil{height:28px;width:28px;margin-top:6px}.FB0XngPKpgt3Ui354TbYQ{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-align:start;align-items:flex-start;-ms-flex-direction:column;flex-direction:column;margin-left:8px;min-width:0}._3tIyrJzJQoNhuwDSYG5PGy{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;width:100%}.TIveY2GD5UQpMI7hBO69I{font-size:12px;font-weight:500;line-height:16px;color:var(--newRedditTheme-titleText);white-space:nowrap;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis}.e9ybGKB-qvCqbOOAHfFpF{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;width:100%;max-width:100%;margin-top:2px}.y3jF8D--GYQUXbjpSOL5.y3jF8D--GYQUXbjpSOL5{font-weight:400;box-sizing:border-box}._28u73JpPTG4y_Vu5Qute7n{margin-left:4px} Showing up to a public court with No Balls, Press J to jump to the feed. Personally, the unannounced showing up of an ex is UNFORGIVEABLE. Make sure to keep your door locked. I know she cheated. This is obviously the wrong forum to post in, but I figured I'd get the most views here. More posts you may like. We and our partners use cookies to Store and/or access information on a device. Do you think he will ever want me back if I continue to give him space? It was discussed and both decided to have her just stay put. And this is torture. Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By I truly love her I mean we overcame huge hurdles to be together. I feel as though I have been misunderstood. This is meant to keep you off balance. Tuesday, December 13, 2022. . thekid55January 25, 2011 in Getting Back Together, Well mine did last night. He had to think of you to do this. I just always tell him the same thing. It takes a lot for a person to do intead of just texted like a little girls do. She said that she never knew what it was like to be alone and she's learning that now. recap what everyone said.. i think she relized what a good bf u were and how well u treated her.. and she was easing her guilt and letting u know she understand what u were going thru.. but one important thing she said was she felt ur kinda rel was for something later in life not in college.. so i think this says she doesnt want the rel now, but would be open to it later in life when she was ready.. and i think thats why she came over and tried to make it right to possible keep the door open for a future rel.. Basically, she just repeated over and over that she just wanted to come over to tell me that she didn't just 'throw it all away' and that's all she wanted to do. Read More >, This has never happened in our family before. My ex has only supervised visitation, but he keeps showing up at my house without notice or permission and making major scenes to see our son. The truth is there is only him. It may or may not work, but its atleast a more passive approach to someone HC & also allows you to kind of assert your position in their lives - which I have found is important considering they often live in denial. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. He insists that we promised eachother but all I remember is him saying he did not want a relationship. If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. & for anyone that takes this comment seriouslywhy??? I didn't want to disrespect his choice and boundaries so I refrained from going to where he lives / works / etc. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022. Part of me was hoping maybe he wanted to talk but now I dont know what to think. Ill do what you say and leave him alone and hopefully he will come to me at somepoint. Her and I basically go back and forth for the next hour or so. obviously she had told her son I was learning russian. ._3-SW6hQX6gXK9G4FM74obr{display:inline-block;vertical-align:text-bottom;width:16px;height:16px;font-size:16px;line-height:16px} We have a lot of mutual friends and maybe that's her way of moving on. She assumed it because I didnt talk to her for 3 days and then lied about part of why i didnt talk to her. About recognizing mistakes you made and addressing them with the new girls you're meeting. We have encountered a ridiculous amount of comments that don't follow the rules and are downright nasty. She kept saying that she didn't know what it was like to be alone and she's been learning that now. If he contacts you again, talk over the phone. I was starting to feel like I was almost over her too and she just randomly shows up. before the 1 month of nc, when her kids would pick up the phone she would let them talk to me. Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. No doubt! I'm sorry I bothered you. If you are unsure of your rights, you should consult an experienced real estate lawyer in your area. I use to look at my ex's friend list on Facebook and question what men she had slept with. I havent been in contact with her for a month straight. I've already told her that I'm not going to chase after her. ( I read about her barging in and taking her daughter out of bed) this woman is unstable. I don't like unexpected visitors anyway, but an ex??? You sound like you are doing great after your bu. Only time will tell if he will ever come back. At the time, we agreed to split up and take some time to work on ourselves. I was very confused as it was his day to get their daughter so I didnt know if it was an emergency. Let him come to you and don't ever try to defend yourself because that makes you look guilty. Retroactive jealousy is affecting our relationship, what should we do? Started Saturday at 09:38 PM, By We haven't had a real conversation in months. Her: I told you I wanted you to know that I didn't throw it all away and that I appreciate everything. I was worried and let a member of his family know that he had turned up. Did you lose yourself in this relationship? Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Only the one in her head. Get Both of us have been involved with other people, yet she still came running back to my apartment for whatever reason. The conclusion was a no contact order and 2 I've read a lot of your posts though kid, so I know you know that. Started Saturday at 09:38 PM, By The consent submitted will only be used for data processing originating from this website. Read More >. Sorry to go on about it so much. My attempts are not always received well either. I was told that he kept telling her that he didn't want to be with her and she wasn't taking the hint and continued to hang out with him. Something is fishy here. Continue with Recommended Cookies, By So really nothing bad happens since the school will always call in that case. Who knows though. If you would like to change your settings or withdraw consent at any time, the link to do so is in our privacy policy accessible from our home page.. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Everytime I tell him the truth he says im lying. It's my ex-girlfriend. Best of luck! Just little comments you make. A lot of subtle tests too, saying like 'Well you don't have to see me anymore'. TikTok: @xomissjaay, Sheryl Jacques A woman said she took her five-year-old child to the home of a YouTuber unannounced. What would you do in this FACEBOOK/Match.com situation? I have not spoken to my husbands ex in over 2 years. I get a call from an unknown number. It is already q, Oh Let's Get Rich And Buy Our Parents House Lyrics, Dumbwaiter Betrayal At House On The Hill . Her: It took me 4 months to talk to you..I cut you off when we broke up completely and we needed that..I've gotten to a place where I could talk to you about what happened and I knew you were hurt and I wanted to tell you those things. Something happened with them and now she has to face the music of what's going on. i would never force anything like that. TL;DR - My question is kind of advice, support, or at least insist that he loves me and my first time she slept with someone. Woke up a sick Child, pulled a her out of bed and carried her out and her in the car and left. I did enable her too though, so it's not totally her fault. I didn't do it because I wanted her back(even though if the chance came along, I might reconsider if circumstances were different), but because I honestly wanted to say hi to her parents. Yes the trust is broken, I just hate this feeling. 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